Shraaddh Rituals after Death
10th Day Rituals ($501)
This is done on the 10th/11th or 12th day after someone passes away. This includes all 10 days of Shraaddh offerings to the departed soul. 10 Pind are offered. This ritual lets the Aatman progressively detach from the body since the body that was made from five basic elements was cremated, and in the first 10 days the Aatman was progressively made aware that the body was dissolved into fire; thus, the Aatman was requested to go towards Pitrulok.
11th Day Rituals ($501)
This is done on the 11th or 12th day after someone passes away. Bhagwan Satyesh (Vishnu) is worshiped along with fire sacrificial rituals. Panch Dev are also worshiped. 11 + 5 Pind are offered to different forms of God.
Satyesh (God Vishnu) and Panch Dev (Brahma, Vishnu, Rudra, Yam, and Tatpurush) are worshipped in this ritual along with Panch Dev Abhishekam with individual Suktam. Hawan is also performed twice.
12th Day Rituals ($501)
This ritual is done only on the 12th day after someone passes away. This is where the departed soul is requested to join the Pitrulok; the Pind is split into 3 and is merged with 3 generations of predecessors.
13th Day Rituals ($501)
The 13th Day rituals are done on the 12th or 13th day after someone passes away. Various Tarpan is offered to all departed souls in the family. God Vishnu along with the Goddess is worshiped and various Daan (giving away) are offered to some of the family members, to a Brahman, and to other needy.
A basic list of Items
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Barley, Black Sesame seeds, Rice, Mung beans, Whole wheat (All 1 lb.), clay diva (12), Krishna or Vishnu Idol
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White or yellow loose flowers, few Tulsi leaves, Darbh (Kush, Dry & long grass), Water, milk, ghee, 8 Paan leaves
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betelnut, 45 small Pind and 1 Bigger Pind, Kalash (2), Bajoth (3), long white cloth to cover Bajoth
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Aasan (seating cloth), Paper & cloth napkins, Camphor, Incense sticks, matchbox, Cotton wicks (Diwa)
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Steel dishes, bowls, spoons, Bhakhri (or Puri) mixed with Kheer to offer to Birds (Crow etc.), 2 Coconuts
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Large Bowl (14" or bigger), Wood Sticks, Hawan Samagri, Akhand Deep, Ghee for Hawan
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Make pind from rice flour or cooked rice; you can add more. They are Barley, black sesame seeds (Til), Water (Gangajal suggested), Milk, Yogurt, Ghee, Honey,
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After rituals are done, all pind, grains, sacred thread, and water from rituals should be offered and merged into a water body (Ocean or river) or should be buried in the SW corner of your home.
These Shraadh rituals typically go for 8-plus hours.
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